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Complications...

We all experience complications in our every day lives. I can't think of a time when I didn't have something complicated going on. My question is, how do we handle those situations? Take mine, for example. I have a really good friend, who just so happens to be my RA as well. She's dating my best friend from high school and I'm dating her ex. She's a great person and I'm so glad that she makes my best friend happy. However, certain conversations have taken place and I'm not so sure that I'm fond of that relationship anymore. Take for example the fact that she's told me numerous times that she isn't fond of my relationship right now. It's not that she doesn't like my boyfriend, she's just super protective of me and cares a lot for me. I completely understand that, but no offense, I know I have more experience/knowledge when it comes to relationships than she does. One of my biggest pet peeves is when somebody compares themselves to others...*ahem.* She seems to like putting my boyfriend down. She complained about, whenever they were dating, how he never bought her anything, he was immature and super cheap. I've known this guy for about four months now and he's basically spoiled me. I can't tell you how many different things he's bought me or how many dates we've been on. Also, while she was dating my boyfriend, they wrote notes to each other and whatnot. Well, now that I'm dating the same guy, we do that too. So she told me that she just seeing what they had in "repeat." Are you serious? There is literally ONE similarity in our relationships, and it's the letter writing. How stupid can you be? Don't get me started on that. Anyways, we don't talk about that anymore. I don't understand how somebody who claims to be so Christian can be so judgmental about somebody. Nahmeen? I've gotten to the point where I don't care what she says/thinks, I know how my relationship is and she can just back off.